10 Reasons I Am Thankful (Plus an Update)

What a year it has been!  During this year I experienced a reduction in workforce in the public schools. Both of my parents had major surgery.  My family moved across the state and thankfully we are closer to my parents.  I am employed again, working 9-10 hour days, and commuting two hours each day.

If you’re wondering why you haven’t seen me around here, it’s because of these things. Sometimes in life it’s just best to step back from a few things so that you can survive and/or put first the things that are most important to you.

Through all of these things I can still find reason to give thanks.  I am blessed. I believe that God honors an attitude of gratitude.

Here are some of things I am thankful for (in no particular order):

1.  My husband. Like every couple, we fight and argue.  He loves the Lord and is a wonderful father to our children.  With God on our side, we’ll make it through many more years together.

2.  My kids. They are both healthy, smart, and love Jesus. What more could a parent want?

3.  My parents. They taught me to be kind, considerate of others, to help those in need, and to love God.

4.  My health. I am so very thankful that I have the strength to complete my job each day and care for my family.

5.  My family. I am blessed with a brother, cousins, aunt, uncles, in-laws, and grandparents.

6.  My friends. I have a few really true and loyal friends in my life.  They are the ones that you can talk to about anything and they will be there to steer you in the right direction or just to listen.

7.  My Savior. Some people don’t understand why I talk about the Lord so much.  It is because of the joy that comes from serving Him.  It really is hard to explain.  You don’t understand it until you’ve experienced it.

8.  My job. I know I commute and it is not ideal, but I do have a job. I spent months this summer looking for a job and it really helps one to appreciate employment.

9.  A place to live and food to eat.

10.  Freedom. Though our country has it’s faults, it’s still a pretty great place to live. I am thankful for the freedoms I have.

If you are struggling with finding reason to give thanks or simply want more information on having an attitude of gratitude, check out this message from Pastor Steven Furtick of Elevation Church.

What are you thankful for?

“Rejoice always,  pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”  1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

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In Memory of a Courageous Hero, Chris Campbell

Earlier I posted a story I wrote about Chris. Today is his birthday so I thought I would also share a poem I wrote for his parents.

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Just a young boy
Small among your kind
With a mischievous grin
And a love for mankind

Longing for adventure
With an internal drive to succeed
If you set your mind to something
Nothing could stop your need

Always playing sports
You had such energy and talent
Not wanting to attract a crowd
The heart of a daring gallant

The baby of the family
We had that and more unspoken
We were of the same age
Our moms’ friendship was a lasting token

A brave young man now
Filled with courage and drive
You joined the Navy
The most elite, their pride

You served quietly and secretly
We did not ask questions
Your parents could not boast of you
And the Navy’s dangerous missions

I cannot imagine the life you lived
Or the menace you incurred
To set the oppressed ones free
And a safer world for the innocent unheard

It’s time to say goodbye
My mind can’t believe that it is true
You left a courageous hero
Our lives were all changed by you

My heart aches for your family and friends
And especially your daughter
May God’s comfort for us transcend
Despite the pain and sorrow

~Karen Buckhalter Weideman

In Memory of Chris Campbell

In Honor of Chris Campbell

Today’s post has nothing to do with being thrifty but I want to honor an old friend on his birthday. He would have been 37 years old. He was one of the Navy Seals that was recently killed in Afghanistan. My mom and I visited with his mom today and she was happy to read childhood memories I had of him.

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August 7, 2011

I sat quietly in an airport crying tears of grief for my friend.  Normally I might cower away from showing such a public display of expression.  This time it was warranted. Truthfully, it seemed an honor to grieve on his behalf.  He had given the ultimate sacrifice and I could not ashamed of my splotchy red face and eyes.

I was returning home from a convention which was filled with business related events and interactions with others.  Although I knew of his death the previous day, my mind finally had time to rest and it was soon flooded with thoughts and forgotten memories.

We were kids running together through the yard.  Our parents were talking and visiting.  We raced to pass time until it was time for him to go.  It was a hot summer evening and I pulled off my shoes to run.  “I can run faster without shoes” I told him and we raced.  The grass touched my bare feet as we ran to the tree across my yard. “One more time” we would say as we tried to be the next winner of the race.

We climbed a pile of gravel in my driveway.  My dad had some gravel delivered so that he could repair and fill the holes that had formed.  I think my mom fussed at us for climbing up the gravel.  Like me she was protective of her children and wanted to keep them from danger.

We traveled together to Hammock’s Beach, Bear Island.  His mom drove her station wagon with all of us in it.  I rode in the front seat in the middle.  The air conditioner blew my hair and my head ached from the cold.  His brother, my brother, and he were close to the same age. They had common interests and played well together.  Whenever we would go to the beach he would always make a trip to the snack bar.  His mom laughed and said that as long as he had money in his pocket he was going to eat.  Whenever we went to the beach the boys would play in the water and get pushed around by the waves.  The girls would walk the beach, talk, and look for shells.

When my friend came to visit me from Florida she thought he was cute. We invited him and his friend over for dinner.  My friend and I cooked dinner for them.  We served sparkling water in our attempt to act older and mature.  He and I looked at one another and exchanged frequent smiles as old friends would.  On our way to take them home we heard a kitten meowing in a ditch and we rescued my kitten from my crazy dog’s kidnapping attempts.

He was sitting beside me. We were teenagers and as many teens do we sat on the back row during church services.  We would exchange small chit chat before service started. We showed our prom pictures to one another.  He gave me a picture and I put it into my senior album which contained photos of friends.  We simply talked about things that are important to everyone of that age.

He was only one day older than me. That was another thing we had in common.  We always knew when the other person had a birthday.  Our moms were best friends and they both worked in the schools.  Our moms had summers free to spend with us and take us places so we spent a lot of time together.

I can visualize the pictures from birthday parties and other events over the years.  He was small for his age but always full of energy and life. He was known for being active in any kind of sport.

My heart swelled with pain and tightness as I thought of his parents. I could not imagine the grief that they felt. To lose a child is a parent’s worst nightmare.  It was easy to recall all of the times I had prayed for my children and for God to keep them safe from harm.  I could only pretend to know the pain they were experiencing.  I wept again, but this time it was for dear friends.

My mind returned to the phone conversations I had over the weekend with my dad.  I was comforted knowing there were church friends and family to visit them during such a difficult time.

Whenever the military were recognized during church services his dad always wore his uniform.  How proud of his son he must have been.  What an accomplishment it was for their son to be a part an elite group of Navy Seals.  When a child does something great such as making the dean’s list parents want to tell everyone. His parents probably didn’t have that privilege. Their son was performing secret missions that no one would ever know.

His mom served the military lunch after church that Sunday. What a servant’s heart she must have to give of herself only a day later.  Everyone would understand if she stayed at home that day.  Maybe it was her way of showing respect and honor to her son.  As the wife of a retired Marine she understood their lives. She knew the sacrifice required of the entire family.

A navy seal – I tried to envision what that must be like.  What kind of training must he have endured to become one? How does someone even begin to be chosen?

Regret fills my heart.  How did we drift apart and not keep in touch?  I struggle to remember the last time I saw him but then my mind is filled with wonderful memories.  It seems as though I haven’t seen him in forever and then it seems like it was just a few weeks ago.

He will forever be missed.  Lives are changed because of him.

May God be with his family, his friends, and his daughter.  May they be filled with the peace and comfort that only He can bring.  We praise God for our friend and the sacrifice he gave.

~Karen Buckhalter Weideman

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”  John 15:13

In loving memory of Christopher George Campbell
September 16, 1974 – August 6, 2011

Bumble Bee Foods Bee Squad Party

For the second year, I am a member of the Bumble Bee Foods Bee Squad.   Bumble Bee Foods sent their Bee Squad bloggers to Blogher again this year.  The conference was in San Diego, CA and never before had I been to California or anywhere even near it.  Bumble Bee was excited that the conference was in their neck of the woods and they took us to some of their favorite places.

After we arrived in San Diego on Thursday Bumble Bee hosted a private party at Mr. A’s Restaurant.  The party was outside on the patio overlooking the city.  The view was absolutely beautiful.  We were fortunate to begin the party while it was still daylight and stay until dark.

Hardly any of us sat down during the party. The view was just too gorgeous to ignore. We all stood around and continued to look out. We saw several planes land while we were there which was a bit scary. It looked like the planes were going to crash into a building or land in the water.

One of the highlights of Blogher is seeing blogging friends. I met Elizabeth from Table 4 Five back in 2008 at the first Pampers Mommy Blogger event. We sat up on the very tall bench at Pampers and I sang “I’m a big kid look what I can do . . .”. She declared me cute and we have been friends since. 

Chef Scott Leibfried continues to be the chef for Bumble Bee Foods. Last year during the Blogher party Chef Scott made some quick and yummy foods using Bumble Bee products. This year he hung out with us and talked. He is very nice and easy to talk to. Chef Scott is known for his appearances on Hell’s Kitchen, the Food Network Challenge, and Kitchen Nightmares.

I was also thrilled to meet up with Lori again from The Bargain Shopper Lady.  We got to spend lots of time together this year and she is definitely a kindred spirit.  You can see a picture of the two of us and the entire Bee Squad at her site.

As you can see, the city is beautiful during the day and night. It is also very obvious that I am in need of a new camera.

I hope you enjoyed the pictures. I’ll try to post more from Blogher later this week.

Disclaimer: I am a member of the Bumble Bee Foods Bee Squad. The opinions are my own.

Thought for Today

Acts of kindness should be from the heart and without a scale of checks and balances. Expecting something in return holds the other person in bondage and robs you of a blessing.

~Karen Weideman

An Update

You may think I have disappeared.  In a way I kind of have.  After staying at home or working part-time for 7 years I went back to work full-time in April 2010.  In January 2011 I was able to get a better paid teaching position with benefits (yay for benefits!) and I am also commuting to work each day. 

I am busy. 

While I still love to find a good deal, I don’t have much time to post about all of the deals that I find. 

I am beginning to adjust to the routine and my new classroom and I hope that you’ll see more of me in the future. 

January’s Top Reads

You may be wondering what posts Thrifty Mommy readers enjoyed or you may have missed out on some helpful money saving advice.  The most read posts this month were:

Good Samaritan’s Do Exist

30 Ways to Clean with Vinegar

Paper Jamz Review

Easy Do-It-Yourself Luau/Beach Cupcakes

Printable Coupon: Free New York Style Product

Today’s CVS Deals ~ January 30, 2011

Sales at Lifeway Christian Stores

10 Cent Prints at Walgreens

Cucumber Salad Recipe

Product Review: Simmons Beautyrest Sheets

Please remember that some of the sale and coupon information may no longer be valid.

Which articles did you enjoy?

Checking In

Sorry I haven’t been around much this past week.  We went out of town for a few days to celebrate my parents’ 40th wedding anniversary.  Congratulations to them! 

We had a great time at the party.  We were able to spend some time visiting with family and friends.  My dad’s sisters came into town and surprised us all. 

My cousin and I swapped hand-me-downs with one another for our kids.  I’m excited to see what kind of “new” treasures we have.

As you know when you go out of town, even for only a few days, there is lots of preparation that takes place.  Last week I worked late on Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday and then I had a few things to take care of after school.  Thursday I packed for our trip and Friday we left after school.

Today I am working on laundry and some clean up.  Unfortunately, I didn’t hunt any deals last week.  I hope to get back on track soon on grocery shopping and couponing.

Did you find any exciting deals?

Good Samaritans Still Exist

Yesterday when we were leaving for church I heard a cat meowing.  It was a continuous meow so I went to the woods to investigate and found a kitten about 25 feet in the air.  I figured she would be down when we got home from church.  A few hours later, she was still in the tree.  Throughout the day, I went outside to check on the cat and she had not budged.  My husband and I tried to coax her down.  The problem was that she would move to come down and then she would get spooked and go up into the tree even further.  I called the fire department and they said there was nothing they could do. 

Fast forward to today.  The kitten was still in the tree.  I called the fire department again and explained that it had been over 24 hours.  I also called the animal hospital, animal control, police department, tree cutter, and other places trying to get recommendations of people to call.  I posted pictures of the kitten on facebook to see if anyone knew what we should do.  I even posted and tweeted to local news channels.  My friends encouraged me to do more tweeting on the matter and so I did.  What did I have to lose? 

While all this was going on my husband got out the ladder and although he couldn’t reach the cat, he was trying to talk her down from the tree.  He even cut down a tree and tried to lean it up against the other one so that she could walk down it at an angle.  This cat wasn’t coming down and at this point she had been in the tree for over 30 hours.

Some of my friends also did some tweeting and posting on facebook for me.  My friend and former editor Gayla was a big cheerleader and she also tweeted it for me.   My friends were also upset about the cat being in the tree for so long.  It has been said that you don’t see dead cats in trees so they eventually come down.  Well, that’s not necessarily the case.  Google it and you’ll be alarmed.

The tweeting was very successful.  I began tweeting with Kim Hughes of 704 Events.com and she put me in contact with Rob of Jackalope Jacks Restaurant in Charlotte.  Rob began working on getting a crew together to come rescue the kitty.  Before long a group of people was working to save the cat.  Dave Smith jumped out of his truck and was up the tree in minutes.

The problem is that the kitten was petrified and honestly, I don’t think she’s been around people very much.  She climbed further up into the tree when Dave tried to help her.

The rest of the guys were standing at the bottom in case the cat fell.

As you can imagine, this was making me very nervous and I was doing lots of praying for Dave’s safety.  Thankfully Dave and the cat made it down safely.  Unfortunately, I don’t have a picture of the cat on the ground.  She took off running after she got down.

In this world you will meet lots of people that will be ugly to you and that will let you down.  It’s nice to know that there are others in the world that help complete strangers.

A special thanks to:

Kim Hughes of 704 Events.com

Rob of Jackalope Jacks Restaurant in Charlotte

Tony Furr of Classic Auctions

Dave of Dave Smith Tree Experts

Have you witnessed any kind acts of service lately?

No Deals for Me

On both Wednesday and Thursday of last week I made it to Harris Teeter for their super double coupon sale.  There are still so many more coupons I wanted to use plus HT had a few sales I wanted to get.  I had planned on doing my purchases after work Monday and Tuesday. 

There just one little problem . . .

snow and ICE! This is a picture yesterday before it snowed some more and some more and before the ice last night.  I heard the roads were slick yesterday. I cannot imagine what they are now.  My neighbor got stuck on our street. They had the tractor with a scraper out there trying to get her out of the neighborhood.

We are stuck at home from school.  I can’t imagine that we’ll be having school tomorrow. 

We’re safe at home but I’m sad that I don’t get to shop the sales.  The super double coupon sale is when I stock up on lots of things and we get to have items that I normally don’t buy.

Are you missing out on the sales too?

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